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Finding Light After Loss

Manuel Enrique

Just as water doesn't cease to exist when it evaporates, our loved ones don't disappear when they leave their physical form. They transform. 

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When celebrated author Joan Didion lost her husband to a sudden heart attack in 2003, she documented her grief journey in her memoir ‘The Year of Magical Thinking.’ She wrote about how, for months, she couldn't give away his shoes, convinced that he would need them when he returned. This profound denial, this grappling with the unthinkable, resonates with anyone who has experienced devastating loss.

What Didion discovered through her grief—the mysterious ways our minds process loss, the strange comfort found in rituals, the persistent feeling of the departed's presence—aligns remarkably with ancient Yogi wisdom about death and transition.

The Yogis teach us that death is not an ending, but a transition. Just as water doesn't cease to exist when it evaporates, our loved ones don't disappear when they leave their physical form. They transform, moving to what the Yogis describe as "a different vibration, a different state of being."

The pain we feel isn't the absence of our loved ones, but rather love that hasn't yet found its new expression. It's like a river that meets a boulder; it doesn't stop flowing—it finds a new path.

When we understand this, we can begin to heal differently. Instead of trying to "move on" or "get over" our loss, we can learn to transform our grief into a different kind of connection. Our loved ones remain present in memory, in dreams, and in those quiet moments when we feel them near. The Yogis encourage us to speak to them in our hearts, to honor their memory through living fully, and to use our breath as a bridge between worlds.

Didion eventually found her way through grief. She didn’t forget or "moved on." She transformed her relationship with loss. Like the Yogi teaching suggests, she discovered that love never dies—it only transforms. Her story is a reminder that while grief may change you forever, it can also open you to deeper truths about love, life, and the eternal nature of the soul.

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